Rewards
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Procyona
Зарегистрирован: 09.09.2012 Сообщения: 1876 Откуда: Finland
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Добавлено: 26.08.2015, 19:56 Заголовок сообщения: Rewards |
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Sometimes when I work, the result itself is a good enough reward. But I have noticed that extra rewards boost me to work every day. This happens especially when the result I am craving takes a long time to make.
With extra rewards, I do not have to use as much willpower to work and enjoy the work as well.
What are your thoughts?   _________________ "As you think, so shall you become." - Bruce Lee
"Have fun, do good, and the money will come." - Richard Branson
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Faroth
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Добавлено: 31.08.2015, 12:59 Заголовок сообщения: |
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I'm not very familiar with this concept. I might have some milestones within a big project so it's easier to track. Getting to that milestone is a reward enough for me. Milestones can also be time based.   _________________ "Having 2 ears and one tongue means we should listen twice as much as we speak."
"I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” – Thomas Edison"
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Procyona
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Добавлено: 31.08.2015, 20:31 Заголовок сообщения: |
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Faroth писал(а): | I might have some milestones within a big project so it's easier to track. Getting to that milestone is a reward enough for me. Milestones can also be time based. |
How do you feel when you get to that milestone, Ville-Pekka? Does it change how you think about the big project? Thank you for your thoughts!   _________________ "As you think, so shall you become." - Bruce Lee
"Have fun, do good, and the money will come." - Richard Branson
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vmashchenko
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Добавлено: 01.09.2015, 02:56 Заголовок сообщения: |
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When you do what you like to do most you do not need any other rewards. It's hobby. You do this because of just you like it to do. You like process, not rewards.
I think it's a big thing. Like process as much as result.
When I read a book I do not care when I finish it, I just want to read further. And I do not need any rewards at all   _________________ Вячеслав Мащенко   |
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Procyona
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Добавлено: 03.09.2015, 15:11 Заголовок сообщения: |
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Thank you for the second opinion, guys. It might be just me, but when I do something regularly, I sometimes have days when I need to push myself to do what I like to do the most. Then rewards come in handy, where they physical prizes or the feeling of commitment or achieving afterwards.   _________________ "As you think, so shall you become." - Bruce Lee
"Have fun, do good, and the money will come." - Richard Branson
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vmashchenko
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Добавлено: 08.09.2015, 08:04 Заголовок сообщения: |
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Procyona, why you push yourself in days when you do not want to do that you like? Maybe it's better to relax and have some rest?   _________________ Вячеслав Мащенко   |
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Procyona
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Добавлено: 10.09.2015, 17:39 Заголовок сообщения: |
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Thank you vmashchenko, it might be a good idea to rest for a while. But I do feel that I need to keep going right after some rest, so that I do not fall behind on my goals and dreams.
Also, you can call me Milla.   _________________ "As you think, so shall you become." - Bruce Lee
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vmashchenko
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Milla, ok!
Goals are just goals. They can sometimes conflict with health and need to be reevaluated.   _________________ Вячеслав Мащенко   |
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Procyona
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Thank you vmashchenko, I understand your suggestion.   _________________ "As you think, so shall you become." - Bruce Lee
"Have fun, do good, and the money will come." - Richard Branson
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Haveunique Instructor
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What is a reward? What are your definitions, guys? Is it a process, is it a thing?
For me sometimes the whole notion is very unclear... If a reward is something that makes me feel good, than my whole life becomes one singular effort in the direction from suffering to joy   _________________ Не пытайся - делай.
Try not, do.
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Procyona
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Добавлено: 16.09.2015, 20:39 Заголовок сообщения: |
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Thank you for the question Tetyana.
For me, a reward is something I allow myself to feel when I have achieved a goal. Sometimes the feeling comes with an action, like reading a good book or eating an apple. Nowadays it's more about letting myself enjoy what I do by changing the feeling itself.   _________________ "As you think, so shall you become." - Bruce Lee
"Have fun, do good, and the money will come." - Richard Branson
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vmashchenko
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What do you mean by "changing feeling by itself"?   _________________ Вячеслав Мащенко   |
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Procyona
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Добавлено: 21.09.2015, 20:29 Заголовок сообщения: |
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vmashchenko писал(а): | What do you mean by "changing feeling by itself"? |
Thank you for asking, vmashchenko. I mean that I change my feeling rather than my action.   _________________ "As you think, so shall you become." - Bruce Lee
"Have fun, do good, and the money will come." - Richard Branson
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vmashchenko
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Добавлено: 27.09.2015, 07:03 Заголовок сообщения: |
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Good point.
But it would be rather changing perception. Because what we feel is what our nervous system tells us. Pain, hot, cold, spicy, sweet, etc.   _________________ Вячеслав Мащенко   |
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Procyona
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Добавлено: 02.10.2015, 16:41 Заголовок сообщения: |
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True point. Changing the perception changes the feeling also. Learning that your perception is not the ultimate truth is sometimes a true eye-opener. Very simple tool to use when you once learn how.   _________________ "As you think, so shall you become." - Bruce Lee
"Have fun, do good, and the money will come." - Richard Branson
"Believe in yourself. Keep writing." - Neil Gaiman   |
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